The first date can be tough. Both parties are still getting comfortable with each other and there’s an awkwardness in the air.

Besides the usual things you don’t want to do (like talking about yourself too much) there are 10 things to avoid in conversation to help your date go smoother.

1. “I’ve watched this movie with my ex.”

2. “My ex and I use to come here all of the time.”

3. On the phone (if you are a man): “I will be home by 10 mom”

4. “Can I have a doggy bag to take with me” (when you are in a restaurant)

5. “My dad/mom wants me to be home by nine.”

6. “Come and meet my parents.”

7. “I have never felt better since taking Prozac.”

8. “I have had 10 lovers; how many have you had?”

9. “I only split with my boyfriend/girlfriend last week.”

10. “Do you mind getting the bill? I am broke” (if you are a man).