If you’re reading this – that’s a good sign. It means you recognize the need for an intervention or some kind of help.

Being single too long can have an effect on your A game, like eliminating it. If you recognize any of the following signs you know its now time to do something.

If you assume that you repulse all women, you’re in bad shape. A lot of women look for confidence before they’re thinking about your looks.

Another thing to look at are your current dating standards. If the chubby girl at the corner store has become “doable” in recent weeks or months, you’ve got a rut to break out of!

And one other sure sign that you’re in trouble is you’ve taken up the past time of surfing mail order brides. There’s still hope, but you need to go cold turkey on this one. Trust us, its for the best.

One trait that is becoming increasingly obvious – you play too many damn video games. Don’t live in denial, drop the controller and go pick up some babes.

We’re getting near the end and this next sign is inexcusable – when you let your mother or other member of the family set you up on a blind date. Have you no shame? Have you ever even tried online dating? It works for lots of people, and a lot better that Aunt Jude’s idea of “the perfect girl for you!”.

And as a guy, this is a big one. If you live alone and get a cat, it might simply be too late for you.